Parenting Baby to Sleep: Baby will not sleep without parent



This post is to Emma…thank you

Some children are born with such a strong continuum (ie continuum concept) that they can not stand to be without their Mothers for a moment…other children are fine. Why? We are a different … isn’t it great! This is also known as a Fussy/Highneeds baby

With my second child I have learnt that its OK to hold onto them…in fact its great. Its a total mind adjustment for the parent and it takes thought, stamina and trail and era…the unwillness to give up.

Hamish (baby 2) has slept on me from the first day he arrived. I’ve breastfeed him while pushing Baby 1 on a swing. He’s slept while making the bed, cleaning the house, making dinner, reading stories, talking on the phone hanging out the washing, walking round town…oh yes everywhere!…and all while breastfeeding some times too.
The out come of this for me is I sleep and co-sleep and breastfeed and I don’t hear a peep (unless he’s wet, or gasy) untill morning…..when his sister wakes him up…oh sigh ;-)

A friend asked if he slept well “in there” aka the sling…45min’s-3hours.

I’m a sling girl at the moment and so is Hamish (well he’s a boy…but you know what I mean) but there is heaps of options for Babywearing…just google it and enjoy you sleeping baby.

Oh and a tip Have a back up or two as they do get dirty – the slings or what ever…also try other ways and types as Bub gets older.

Good luck

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4 Responses to “Parenting Baby to Sleep: Baby will not sleep without parent”

  • Roscoe Rivas:

    that’s also my baby! but, things are a little better now that
    he’s 17 months :)

  • Doyle Marsh:

    Great Post!
    My son who is almost 12 months now sleeps in his cot next to my bed
    but still wakes at least once a night for a cuddle. We have always
    co-slept and co-roomed. I figure he is just waking to check in that
    we are still there as he nods off as soon as we pick him up.
    Some babies just need more contact then others and by us accepting
    this fact we are having a much better time.
    We are also expecting Baby2 in 2 weeks – am looking forward to
    being a more relaxed mum when it comes to carrying baby all the
    time! I worried so much with our son!

  • Edna Peterson:

    Yes its just so funny that we worry and listen to all that
    advice…don’t carry them…and right now B1 is on the lounge next
    to me asleep and B2 is in the sling…such a lovely afternoon

  • Dorothy Twyman:

    I used to butter and put applebutter on toast while b’f'dg the
    second – it was AMAZING what I could do. My 2nd actually HATED the
    snuggly after he was 2 mos old and actually pushed away from me … :( So I let him have his space. BUT he still co-slept with me and I
    slept really WELL that way and so did he. He slept with me till
    about 1 year … and was weaned at 15.5 mos – I did when he slept
    thru the nite. :) Great entry!

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