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Getting baby to sleep through the night
Parents yearn for the day when their baby will sleep through the night. There are countless baby books claiming to contain the magic cure for sleepless nights. Some experts claim the only thing to do is let the baby cry. Others claim ‘crying it out’ is a harmful practice and the best solution is a nurturing family bed. Still others recommend a gradual separation allowing the parent to sit with the baby until he or she falls asleep while slowly moving the chair out of the room over the course of weeks. A parent’s job is to get to know their child and decide which sleep method (or combination) will help their child and work in their family.
Parents should realize that many experts consider a baby sleeping five hours in a row to be sleeping through the night. Therefore one should not be discouraged to find that their three month old is not sleeping from 8PM to 8AM. This twelve-hour night might happen, if one is lucky. But it’s not the common behavior. Parents should also not be discouraged by other’s claims that their child slept through the night at eight weeks. This could mean that the child slept eight hours in a row two nights in a row. No matter what ‘method’ one employs, it is likely that your baby will take two steps forward and one step back all through his or her first year before reliably sleeping ten hours in a row.
Family Bed
The family bed has been somewhat controversial because it brings up visions of ten-year-olds still in bed with mom and dad. And of course there is always the occasional horror story of an infant being suffocated in the middle of the night. There is no evidence to suggest that SIDS is more prevalent with families that choose to share their bed. The risks of a child smothering in a bed are very slight as long as there is common sense used. The mattress should be firm, no plush pillows, no gaps between the headboard and mattress. Use a bedrail and never drink or take drugs (including cold medicine) as that could inhibit your ability to wake should there be a problem.
Putting Baby to Sleep: Mother’s Instinct Helps Infants Sleep Better
Putting Baby to Sleep Mother’s Instinct Helps Infants Sleep Better
Hundreds of articles and books have been written about getting a baby to sleep, each giving different advice. Most advocate various methods of the cry-it-out technique and many give conflicting information about how baby should be put to sleep. Mothers may be left wondering where they should turn. The answer? Their instinct.
A Mother’s Instinct Puts Baby to Sleep
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Get Baby to Sleep 12 Hours by 12 Weeks | Articles
Giordano says her method can make a huge difference in the lives of parents. She says too many parents live on four hours of sleep a night or have to lie still for hours each day because their baby is only able to nap while lying on their chest. “You can and should take the time to teach your baby how to fall asleep on his or her own and self-soothe him- or herself back to sleep when he or she wakes,” says Giordano.
Giordano believes babies who are the right age and weight can sleep 12 hours at night, one hour in the morning and two hours in the afternoon.
When asked how she came up with the technique, Giordano says, “Sheer desperation! After using different methods with my other three children I decided not to listen to anybody else and do my own thing with the last of my five children, my twin boys.”
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How Not to Get Baby to Sleep
Every new parent knows how difficult it can be to get a fussy baby to sleep, but new research suggests that a parent’s best efforts may only be exacerbating the problem — and that inadequate sleep in childhood can have long-lasting health effects. “It is very hard to let your child cry it out when they are toddlers,” says Dr. Elsie Taveras of Harvard Medical School, referring to parents’ tendency to pick up their children or bring them into the family bed to help them sleep. “But if you approach it differently — ‘I am not even going to start my child making these sleep associations’ — it’s much easier to prevent [future problems].”
That point is central to a new study by Valérie Simard of Hôpital de Sacré-Coeur in Montréal, which examines the link between parents’ bedtime behavior and sleep disturbances in children during infancy and early childhood. Simard administered yearly questionnaires to 987 parents, whose children were 5 months old at the start of the study. She found that certain “maladaptive” parental habits — such as the mother staying with the child until he or she fell asleep, or the parent giving a child food or drink upon nighttime awakening — appeared to develop in response to babies’ early sleep difficulties, at 5 to 17 months of age. In turn, however, some of those calming strategies, which parents reported continuing to practice at 29 to 41 months, led to disrupted sleep — bad dreams, short sleep time and delays in falling asleep — in children of preschool age.
7 Ways to Get Baby to Sleep | Articles
Even if your baby is normally a good sleeper, everyone has a bad night once in a while. And sometimes, no matter how tired and fussy they are, babies just can’t seem to fall asleep. Unfortunately, the reason for this is a mystery.